Saturday morning, I’m having a little chat with D while making her breakfast. We talk about the adoption order again – there’s still time before we go through it but we’re mentioning it every now and again. I explain that after it’s all finalised, her last name will change to our last name. “But what […]
Tag: Parenting
De-attachment
The final morning of intros. We’re getting closer to the foster carer’s house. A song starts on our playlist that we like, we get a bit disappointed when it stops midway through as we reached the house. “Never mind”, I think, “we’ll just continue where we left off”. Unlike almost every other day during intros, […]
Superparents
We’re not heroes. We’re just people who want to have kids, who can’t have kids the way most people have them. Sure, I guess, we could have gone through some other route, but we chose this one. But we’re not heroes. We can’t allow ourselves to think of ourselves as heroes, because we need to […]